How to Spank Your Wife

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Switch: A switch is someone who can literally switch and enjoy both the dominant and submissive role. What is impact play? So how does she do it? Well, first she makes me take off my pants and underwear. Then she pulls me across her lap for about 50 hard hand swats on each cheek. Then she stands me up and tells me to go get either the strap or the paddle. 90% of the time it’s the strap, which is the little whit lie I’ll tell you about in a minute. By establishing clear expectations and consequences, we are forced to communicate more openly and honestly with each other. The spanking itself doesn't turn me on, but watching him enjoy it, and knowing that I am giving him that pleasure turns me on. I just don't know what to do with it when it is not part of sex. — TFYH When done right, spanking should never actually be painful per se. It should be a little uncomfortable which then gives way to pleasure.

Her favourite implements include wooden jokari paddle,her hand,a slipper,a large ovel wood harbrush,bath brush,birch ,and a very thin whippy school cane.but her most favourite is actually the cane,which I have experienced on important discipline matters. And fully deserve,the strokes vary from 6 of the best but for more serious problems she administers a full 50 strokes tears flow sometimes and my bare bottom stings very much and throbbing,deep crimson,very,very sore indeed she often rubbs baby oil or cream to my tender cheeks during and after my spankings.Her methods are to administer a very authentic hard and long spankings just like my old headmaster administered I think he knew how much I wanted for him to bend me over his knee and administer a stinging Set clear boundaries: Discuss and agree on the specific behaviors that warrant discipline and establish a safe word or signal to indicate when things are going too far. It is important to note that domestic discipline is not a universal practice within Christian marriages, and it is not condoned by all denominations. Couples who choose to engage in domestic discipline should approach it with caution and have a clear understanding of their roles and boundaries. The Role of Submission in Christian Domestic DisciplineUnfortunately I have not been able to try out all of these positions; however, I have to say that it does seem to make sense. I’m sure the tight skin in the diaper position makes it very painful… that does not stop it from being one of my favourite positions though. Maybe you’ve decided to try sexy spanking together but once you do, your partner doesn’t like it. If that’s the case, don’t worry. You both tried and that’s it. By establishing clear boundaries and consequences, we are able to resolve conflicts more efficiently and effectively. I understand those of you who think it shouldn’t be necessary to punish your husband. It might be better (though less fun) if husbands didn’t need to be punished or threatened with punishement to behave wonderfully. That might be nice, but it won’t happen. Men don’t truly understand a thing until they have felt it.

Two years ago, I was in a relationship with a man we’ll call Ron. Ron and I had been dating for a few months, and we had a pretty good sex life. One day, we were having sex when I felt a searing pain on my left butt cheek. Ron had slapped me — hard. Another misconception about domestic discipline is that it is only practiced by conservative Christians. However, people of all faiths and belief systems practice domestic discipline, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. What works for one couple may not work for another, and each arrangement is unique. Respect and understanding for each other’s beliefs is essential for a successful and fulfilling relationship.Placed Over My Knees: After, what I feel is a sufficient time for What you can do is take your time between each spank, so your partner savors the contrasts of pain and pleasure as you build anticipation. Benefits: Many couples who practice domestic discipline report that it has improved their communication, trust, and intimacy. The clear boundaries and consequences help both partners feel more secure in their roles and responsibilities within the relationship. Domestic discipline can also provide a sense of structure and purpose for the husband and wife, helping them to maintain a healthy and fulfilling dynamic. These chemicals that are normally present when we feel happy are also released whenever we feel pain. That means that yes, spanking is painful, but it also makes us feel GREAT!

Beyond just being pleasurable, spanking can also be connected to memories, a psychological theory known as ‘imprinting’ (no, not in the way it’s described in the Twilight books). Regardless of whether one believes in biblical literalism or not, it is important for those who practice domestic discipline to consider the potential consequences of their actions and ensure that they are not causing harm to their partner. The New Testament’s Endorsement of Domestic Discipline You should start by telling her, “I need to punish you.” This lets her know that you are in charge, you are not asking her, you are telling her what needs to happen next. What will happen next. A girl will respect you more for telling rather than asking — she always has the opportunity to say no and this way she doesn’t have to do all the work (she is already carrying her weight in the parts of your relationship you don’t notice).It is important to keep in mind that trust is crucial if you’re going to start sexy spanking. Make sure you trust your partner, and that neither of you will do anything you haven’t agreed on. One common criticism of Christian domestic discipline is that it promotes abuse and control. However, this could not be further from the truth. Consent is a vital component of any domestic discipline arrangement, and it is always clear that both partners have a say in the rules and consequences that are established. Toying with power dynamics can be as alluring as it is discomforting. When it comes to spanking and gender-roles, baggage about power can enter the bedroom on an express train. Although love taps are certainly not exclusively man-on-woman behavior, anecdotally, guys spanking gals is one of the more common manifestations. Some dudes relish lady-swatting, which makes them feel powerful or manly. Roche, for instance, says he loves the “power aspect.” But other dudes are justifiably freaked out by such a request. Men are, after all, taught never to hit women. The fact is that spanking, while enjoyable for some, can be incredibly triggering for others. It can bring up feelings of danger, or even memories of past abuse. So it’s very, very important to tread lightly — especially because the person on the receiving end of the spank may not have even worked out in their own mind how they feel about being spanked. “Being spontaneous can sometimes mean we haven’t thought through what feels good for us or what we want,” Caen says.